Today marks the start of a holding pattern for you. There’s no good spot for you to land right now, and it’s much wiser for you to stay free and easy (and unattached!) than to tie yourself to some sort of anchor that’s less than ideal. Just keep on doing what you’re doing, and don’t waste too much energy looking for something new. Being picky is still a good way to be right now. It’s unwise for you to start any patterns in your life that could be regarded as desperate or careless.
If you’re tired of taking on all the responsibility when it comes to planning dates, then it’s time to state your needs clearly. You could use more of an effort on their part, so tell them, openly and honestly.
Putting your certain someone first feels as good as or better than looking out for number one now, not to mention that they’ll absolutely love it. You’re so good at it they’ll think you’re reading their mind.
Don’t forget that misery loves company, and that’s not all bad these days. Look for people in a similar financial boat if you want to get together in groups today.