You could be starting to detect some patterns in a friend’s behavior that worry you. Before you jump to any conclusions, get some time alone with this person today. See if you can get to the bottom of what’s going on with them. They might need someone to talk to, and your ideas and feedback could be just the ticket to help them start unraveling a knot of confusion in their life. You’re more useful to the people in your life than you realize.
Getting to know people slowly works great for you for now. Why not let people show how interesting they are before investing your time and emotional energy in any one person?
You need to talk with your partner about your new ideas. Nobody can read your mind! You’ll be amazed at how well received they are, and how quickly you can put them into action.
Separate your so-called friends from the real ones and you’ll marvel at how long you felt like you were from two different planets. Find people with more compatible spending habits.