Try to accept things they way they are right now even if they’re not exactly how you want them to be. Keep in mind that things will never be perfect. The sooner you can learn how to be more flexible the better! Being emotionally or physically uncomfortable isn’t necessarily a bad thing. There is a lot of opportunity for growth when you’re struggling to make things better. If everything were easy, attaining things wouldn’t be very rewarding.
You’re not sure about how you-know-who perceives you, and just when you hoped things would take a turn for the romantic. Not to worry! They know how much you’re worth. Don’t worry about being cool. You’re timeless.
The two of you are committed, but you may need a more traditional method of solidifying your relationship, although done up in your unique style. Ceremonies and rituals are important!
It doesn’t have to be all out bliss, but you do want to make sure things around the house are peaceful. Don’t treat it like your credit card bill, wondering how things got to the state they’re in. Make changes at the first sign things aren’t going smoothly.