Stories from the past are great places to find inspiration for your future, so start a few conversations with family members. Ask some probing questions, and try to learn as much as you can about who you used to be from their perspective. Some of what they say will probably surprise you, and some of what they say will definitely flatter you. But everything they tell you is the truth. Count yourself lucky that you have so many people who care so much about you.
Flighty energy could get the better of you, so to heighten your odds of romance, just improve your attention span. Listen closely to others, and pay attention to your own feelings and intuition.
It might feel as if there’s a roadblock between you and romance today, but it’s mostly in your head. Make sure that you’ve got a good handle on what your partner really wants.
Don’t let yourself get paranoid. Not only are you not being personally held back, you’re in the same boat as exactly the rest of the world. Join the crowd.