You’ve been so good at seeing to the group’s needs and putting them above your own lately. But are you going too far? Make sure that you maintain the proper balance between time spent pursuing your own interests and time spent pursuing the interests of everyone else. If you’re always at the beck and call of other people, you could be sending a message that you’re more of a doormat than you actually are. Giving up what you want should never be your automatic reaction.
If you’ve had something on the tip of your tongue, don’t be surprised if it suddenly rolls off with more eloquence, grace, and humor than you’d have thought possible. You charmer, you!
If there’s something you’ve been curious about, don’t be afraid to mention it to your partner. It could be that it’s something they’d like to try, too, and they’ll be thrilled that you brought it up.
Lucky you, you still get to act like the group leader, even if the group is going down in flames. Do what you can to pull out of a tailspin. Think in big pictures, not details.