Nothing will be too much of an obstacle for you today, as long as you don’t show any fear or hesitation. Be flexible, and try to act like you aren’t bothered by anything. Anyone who is causing you stress or putting undue pressure on you now is going to give up soon. They’ll give up even sooner if you refuse to be intimidated. Match them word for word, meet their gaze, and call their bluff. You can turn things around and be in a very powerful position.
Do you want to date this person or do you want to save them? Sometimes the two impulses get muddled together in your tender heart. It’s time to face the music and use your common sense with this prospect.
It all depends on you. It may be that you need to step up proactively and say something or that you need to react appropriately when your partner provokes you, but the outcome is up to you.
No one will fault you for putting off your financial decisions for one more day. On the other hand, there’s no time like the present to get yourself revved up for the future. Go ahead, make a start.