If ever there was a time that’s perfect for you to figure out a plan for letting someone down gently, this is it. After all, planning is your specialty. Your first and best rule will be to do no harm (to either of you) even if that’s much easier said than done. In other words, don’t let them goad, manipulate, or persuade you into staying longer than you should. If you’re done, you’re done.

Good etiquette is big today, and that takes a little preparation. Brush up on silverware placement and use. If you owe someone a thank-you note, send it today. And RSVP as soon as possible. Stay in people’s good graces and make an excellent impression.

You’re going to need to slow down at some point, because you’ve most likely raced pretty far ahead of your partner in one way or another. It shouldn’t be a big deal unless you lose your patience.

It’s hard to learn the lesson you’re learning today, but no one would expect you to enjoy it. All that’s really required of you is to remain dignified. Putting it all to good, if not profitable, use is a small bonus.