The allegiance you have to someone special is loosening right now, but it’s not a sign that your relationship is dissolving, so don’t worry. What’s beginning to happen is that you are learning to give people room (and they’re learning to give it to you). Things are freeing up a bit, and your responsibilities are centered more around being true to yourself and not around making the other person happy. This partnership is equalizing, not ending.

You’re a strong leader, and many look to you to make tough decisions. That doesn’t mean you get to be a dictator! Let your date decide what you’re doing. It’s best to let them call the shots every now and then.

It’s all about ambience. The right environment helps turn up the heat on your love life. Rack your brain and think about what you and your partner enjoy currently and have enjoyed in the past. Then combine the two.

One of the fundamentals of any transaction is mutual value. When all of your energy is focused on making it work and you’re just not getting anywhere, remind yourself of the basics. What do you really have to offer the world?