You need to avoid getting involved in anything that looks remotely like a power struggle today. First, you don’t need the drama in your life right now. And second, there is never a real winner in situations like these. Sure, there is someone who comes out on top, but the resentment directed at the victor is too isolating to be ignored. You need to focus on working with people, not against them. It’s healthier and much more productive.
Sometimes weird is charming. Sometimes weird is mildly alarming. If that person you’d first placed on the “potential” list turns just a little bit too wacky, don’t fret. Take them off the list and find somebody you like better.
If something isn’t working for you, let it go, no matter what it is. It may be painful at first, but you’ll feel free and that’s huge. Plus, it will ultimately benefit your relationship. You’re more efficient when you’re unburdened.
It’s typically a good day to spend on yourself, but you’ll get plenty of that next week. Resign yourself to dealing with coworkers one more day. Imagine the extra money you’ll make if you need some incentive.