If one of your friends needs you today, you have to find a way to come to their aid. Even if you have a dozen projects going on, that shouldn’t matter. Personal relationships simply must be your first priority right now. Plus, helping other people will help you to see things from a new perspective and realize the value you have in other people’s lives. Someone who is in turmoil can help you take stock of what’s going on in your life, too.
Cultivate a little detachment when it comes to love. You have to assess with a more precise eye what it is you’ve been doing and what you want. Pretend you’re giving advice to someone other than yourself.
Now that you’ve seen an unhealthy pattern in your relationship, it’s up to you to find a different path. Lay out your argument for your partner. They’ll see that you’re right. You two can seek a new beginning.
Live with intensity, and don’t let anything get in the way of loving life. If you enjoyed going up, then have fun going down. Even losing money shouldn’t compromise your deep emotions.