The cast of characters in your life could start to change significantly, and your regular way of doing things will have to change to accommodate all of the new faces and energies. While for some people this could create resentment, you’re going to enjoy the unpredictability of the day. You can easily embrace what’s going on and see that after the initial turmoil is over, things are only going to get better.
It’s almost like you’re leading a double life. Outwardly, there’s the eminently capable and competent you. But on the inside, you’re all soft, sweet romance. Enjoy the duality. Having a secret is fun.
You mean it in the best, most constructive way possible, but it could be that all your partner is hearing is that they’re not doing it right. Let them know what you love about them, and maybe let them do it their way for now.
Go ahead, play mind games with yourself, as long as you’re realistic when it comes to the numbers. Tell yourself this is but a minor set back if that’s what helps you continue trying.