An ex is back on the scene, and it looks like they might even be on the market! Before you even contemplate finding out if they are free to meet, remember why things ended between you two. Then, be grateful that they are over! Turn your head away from temptation and instead focus on where you want to go with your life. Your independent attitude will surprise them and even fill them with jealousy, which is a pretty nice position to put yourself in.

Don’t let a loud crowd turn you into a wallflower. Be confident and stay involved, or pick your favorite person and sneak off for a private chat.

Give your partner (or yourself) the freedom to explore a new interest. Being able to detach temporarily actually shows the strength of the relationship. This kind of liberty can’t be given with a spiteful heart.

A compromise brings an immediate feeling of relief. Whether you’re the one negotiating down your debt or giving someone else some of what they’ve asked for, the emotional payoff for you is as big as the financial one. It’s so extraordinary you’ll almost wish you could go through it all again. Almost.