Every day offers its choices, but today is more than just a series of small decisions. Today is a fork in the road in one of your relationships. It could be regarding your role at work, a struggling friendship, or a developing romance. When you’re asked to choose or commit to a direction, pick the path that offers you the greatest challenge. You’re ready to go there. The first steps might be frightening, but you’ll gain a purposeful stride sooner than you think.

That tiny voice in your head is speaking more clearly now, and with good reason. The problem is that you’re not sure you like the message. That’s fine. You should reconcile it sooner or later.

Some people like to say you have to get rid of negative emotions to get anywhere with a relationship. But isn’t that the same thing as denial? Try dealing with them positively instead.

Admit it, you’re just not as sure as you should be. The kind of commitment you’re thinking of making should have you feeling a hundred percent certain. Until you do, don’t sign away your savings. Don’t even commit to a dime.