The biggest lesson you need to learn right now is that being aggressive and being rude aren’t the same thing! You have a right to be forceful or enthusiastic about what you’re doing, whether it’s pursuing a romantic interest or going for that new job. Don’t be afraid to let your bolder side come to the forefront. Sure, it might shock a few people, but it will also signify to everyone that you aren’t somebody who will let people walk all over them.

Take some time today to appreciate the beauty that surrounds you. Head out to a park for some people watching. Even if you don’t think of yourself as an artist, you can still have fun making doodles of your surroundings.

You may sense something is worrying your loved one before they say a word. Let them know you are there for them when they are ready to talk. Just knowing you care will make them feel better.

Fear is a good incentive, but enthusiasm is so much more fun. Try to get your old ardor back into the game. You’ll feel a lot better and be just as productive.