If you go looking for drama, you’re sure to find it — but will you like it once you do? There’s the rub. Wouldn’t it be easier to figure out what it is you need from the party in question and then have a discussion about it? It’s normal if voices get raised and emotions run high, but that’s a far cry from charging into a situation with both barrels blazing, which (come on, be honest) is what you’re tempted to do. Increase the peace instead.

There’s talk and then there’s action. Except in romance, where sometimes it’s hard to tell the two apart. Let go of your expectations and let whatever is coming your way come its own way.

Change is in the air, and to make it positive with regard to your relationship, you’re going to have to go deep. Uncover your true feelings and voice them in your trademark nonconfrontational way.

All of your arrogance and all of your enthusiasm plus all of your desire don’t add up to your goal. There is still one element missing and it’s money. To get it, you have to make a good impression. That means don’t bore people with what it all means to you. Focus on what’s in it for them.