Balancing your family evenly with your career isn’t always required. On days like today, it will be clear which one should take top priority. You can’t let good opportunities pass you by. When you have the chance to move forward at work, you have to grab it. Your family will understand. After all, they want you to be happy and successful just as much as you do. Talk to them openly about what they can expect in the next few weeks. Get them prepared.

If you’re upset, don’t just bury your true feelings for the sake of politeness — let people know what’s up! That person who pushed your buttons is likely unaware of how bruised your ego is, and could offend again if you don’t say something.

If you and your partner are faced with mundane details today (how much vinyl flooring you need to redo the kitchen, for example) just say no! It’s not your day for details.

You have enough inner turmoil without getting sucked into the drama of those around you. Block them all out. It won’t make much difference to your bottom line, but it will improve your mood.