Ever notice that at least nine times out of ten when someone suddenly pops into your mind for no reason at all, it’s not unusual to bump into them just as suddenly or get a call from them, sometimes almost immediately? Guess what? You’re due. These are the times that convince many of us that there really is no such thing as a coincidence. A master plan, perhaps. Fate, maybe. But coincidence? Nah.

Before you can really share yourself with someone else, you need to feel your best. Now is a good time to read up on nutrition, start doing yoga, and make sure you’re getting enough sleep.

Learn to be more realistic about your hopes and goals for your relationship. Couples can’t expect to live life like a romantic comedy. Let common sense be your guide.

You’re putting carts before horses. Desperate times call for desperate measures, but your desperation is causing faulty thinking. You need to slow down, for starters. If it helps, know that you can do this.