Today, you need to be aware that people are putting on a bit of a show for you, either because they want to impress you or because they want to trick you. The distinction is fairly irrelevant, though. If they aren’t being genuine, they aren’t being genuine. Whenever others appear to be something they’re not, you must beware. Accept their flattery with politely, but don’t buy into it. People who have the widest smiles are sometimes the people who have the most negative agendas.

A good sense of humor can salvage a date gone bad. Keep everything in perspective as you have fun. Don’t let the mood in the room get too serious. If all else fails, try again with someone new.

If you’re not sure what’s going on between you and your partner, now is an excellent time to ask a friend or relative for some wisdom. You never know what you might learn.

When you have a sensitive subject on your hands, the last thing you need is publicity. But how can you ask for help without drawing attention to your situation? Start by asking the right source.