Pretending that a problem will just go away someday isn’t a solution. It’s only going to cause you more stress down the line. Just like removing a bandage, the faster you deal with it, the less pain you will feel. If you need to discuss a sensitive issue with someone who’s known to have a hair-trigger temper, be direct, be honest, and be prepared for questions. You can’t avoid this conflict. All you can do is begin it on your terms, which is an advantage.

Are you ready for your closeup? Let’s hope so, because today the spotlight is on you. Turn on the charm and bask in the positive attention that comes your way.

Trust the process instead of looking to the end goal. In a successful relationship, is there ever really a end goal? One would hope not! It helps if you stop subconsciously comparing yourselves to other people.

You’re happy to leave the organizing to someone else for a change. When it comes to a family gathering or a social event, all you have to do is pitch in some money. That’s a deal compared to all the behind-the-scenes sweat equity that goes into pulling it off.