Resist the urge to get too deep into your own thoughts and muck about too much in your own subconscious right now. Being introverted isn’t going to help you feel more contented, but helping others may. Someone you care about very much is in need of a good listener and maybe even a shoulder to cry on. Reach out. Send some messages and find out what’s going on with the people in your life. Be the supportive person everyone knows you are, and enjoy the distraction.

Are you feeling a little introspective? Gather a close friend or two for a discussion of your hopes and desires. Sometimes saying things out loud helps to bring them into focus.

You know everything worth knowing about your partner, don’t you? Then again, aren’t there parts of you that might be a surprise to them too? It’s nice that you two are able to keep surprising each other.

Don’t let anyone tell you the small change doesn’t really matter. You can put your kids through college with what you throw on the dresser at the end of the day. Start digging under the couch cushions, both literally and figuratively. You’ll be amazed at what a difference it makes to the big picture.