Putting effort into minimizing your risk doesn’t always pay off. Sometimes you just can’t avoid it no matter how hard you try. You could be paralyzing yourself by focusing so much on what could go wrong, because a million things could go wrong, and you can’t prevent all of them! Instead, start focusing on what can go right. That will help you swing into a healthier, more productive gear. Your subconscious is actively moving into a brighter future, so why don’t you follow it?

You could meet someone who’s as deliberate and careful as you are. Temperamentally, it’s a match made in heaven. Now the question is who’s going to get it off the ground? The ball’s in your court. Make your move.

Just because everyone is moving at a hare’s pace doesn’t mean you can’t move at a turtle’s, and vice versa. Take your own time discovering what you need, and count yourself lucky that your lover understands completely.

Showing off doesn’t help you but it sure does feel good. If you’ve got it, flaunt it. But just remember that that makes losing it that much harder. Be cautious.