Try to accept things they way they are right now even if they’re not exactly how you want them to be. Keep in mind that things will never be perfect. The sooner you can learn how to be more flexible the better! Being emotionally or physically uncomfortable isn’t necessarily a bad thing. There is a lot of opportunity for growth when you’re struggling to make things better. If everything were easy, attaining things wouldn’t be very rewarding.

Light and breezy is fun at first, but for you to be truly happy, the oerson has to be able to join you on a deeper, more meaningful level. Test them out in subtle ways, and watch out for blank stares!

Whatever you do, avoid saying “I told you so” to your partner right now. You may be in the right, but they won’t appreciate your delight in pointing that out. There’s a fine line between honesty and self-righteousness.

A slight shift in perspective is like an earth-shaking change in attitude. Your thoughts about money have never seemed sillier to you. The giddy, giggling phase will pass but your enlightenment will not.