Your urge to get closer to someone is admirable, but you might need to pay closer attention to the clues this person is sending you. If you try to get into philosophical conversations or delve deep into personal matters, you’ll end up hitting your head against the wall in frustration. This person is either not quite ready to open up to you or not even the type of person who can. Lighten up your conversational tactics, and try not to share too much information.

Slow down and get detail oriented in the realm of romance. You’re inclined to plunge ahead, going with what you know now and your instincts, but there’s more information to be gathered.

Sweetie has a surprise planned, but even if you pick up on it beforehand you should play along. You’re going to enjoy the day once you’ve gotten past the initial burst of weirdness.

Look at your retirement account the way you look at your home. You want it to be safe and secure, but not dull, either. Find the middle ground. Conflicting ideas only lead to too many unexpected outbursts.