When a mistake happens today, you need to be the voice of authority. Help people focus on what needs to be fixed rather than trying to figure out who to blame. One of your partners in life or work needs you to trust them, and they aren’t willing to show you all their cards just yet. Instead of being hurt, try to accept it. Show them that you do trust them and that you’re there for them and willing to give them the benefit of the doubt.

Forget the forest and focus on the trees for now. Are you enjoying a great talk with someone? Are you and your latest crush laughing about the same thing? If so, put aside big picture worries for later.

The two of you are connected on many levels, some of them more romantic than others. You need to deal with everything now, and while it might not be glamorous, it’s all part of the show.

Exercise some willpower. Self-control will make you a better person, even if you’re forced into it kicking and screaming. Your bottom line isn’t the only thing that will benefit.