Be prepared to give a little bit more than everyone else seems to be giving right now — it’s much better than wasting your energy fighting for total equality. Your willingness to be flexible right now will be remembered tomorrow by people who can help make things happen down the road. Of course, flexibility is one of your stronger skills, so it should be no problem for you to put off instant gratification in favor of something more valuable down the line.

Go ahead and introduce yourself, online or in person. The more practice you get, the less of a thing it becomes inside you. You’ve got charisma to burn today, so people should love the attention.

Keeping those loving feelings to yourself feels safer, but what’s the sense in that, really? Let your affection show with words and looks and gestures. Don’t wait! This is how romance grows.

You’re a slave to money one minute and free of it the next. That kind of duality has crushed stronger people than you. You almost long for your former, beholden ways when life was so much easier and your choices were few and far between. Keep your eyes on the middle ground.