You’ve always been drawn to strong, fiery people — the kind who make exciting company simply because you’re never quite sure what they might say or do next. Just that type — your type — could be along shortly. But if you don’t give yourself some time off from that caretaking job you’ve taken on, you’ll never know. At least give yourself a couple of evenings off. Start with tonight and deck yourself out in your very best.

Let past mistakes tell you what not to do in future relationships. Sometimes the worst love affair teaches us the most about ourselves. Reflect on how you could have handled it differently and move on.

The two of you can sweat the small stuff — or you can pay such close attention to the details that you realize the small stuff can be glorious, if you do it properly. Staying in the moment brings untold rewards.

You know what they say about assuming, but someone else doesn’t. They think they’re reading your mind but they are way off the mark. Only you know for sure what’s on the money.