You’ve always considered your coworkers to be your ‘other family,’ so now, when one of them calls and asks for help, you’ll be more than willing to do what you can to take care of it all for them. Remember one thing, though: It’s called ‘tough love.’ In other words, if you’ve dug them out before and they still haven’t done anything to help themselves in the meantime, it might be time to remind yourself of the definition of ‘enabling.’

While you have no problems communicating with friends, your family seems to be a black hole of conversation. Talking easily turns into yelling, or worse, uncomfortable silences. Think of ways to let information flow more easily.

Keeping secrets today is hard. Okay, so go the other way and share some secrets. Funny, revealing, and tender secrets are just the thing to bring you and your partner together through laughter.

Challenge yourself to have a good day within budget today. It won’t be easy, and no one will force you to do it if you don’t force yourself. In fact, no one even knows about your budget but you. Keeping up appearances and having a good time with others is a bit of a juggling act, but you have what it takes to pull it off, and with aplomb.