Today, if you let yourself get drawn into a mystery, you’ll be giving this mystery power over you. Don’t try to figure out why things are happening the way they are. Not only do you not have enough time to waste on such melodrama, you won’t be very satisfied with the solution. Just roll with the punches and try to get comfortable with the ambiguous elements of your life right now. Your future will be full of them too, so the sooner you learn how the handle them the better.

Don’t miss the point of a first date. This isn’t a job interview. You’re there to learn more about someone you’re interested in. This isn’t your big chance to wow them with all your accomplishments. Skip the resume, and be yourself.

You have one set of parents. You really don’t need your partner acting like the job was suddenly vacant. It’s hard not to communicate that without acting like a teenager, though. Remember that actions speak louder than words.

If you didn’t attempt as much as you wanted, don’t beat yourself up over it. Even if you had tried every angle, you still wouldn’t have held onto your money. Start looking ahead.