One of the best ways to remind yourself that you’re the commander in chief of your life is by rearranging your life. It’s time for some housecleaning! But before you get annoyed at the prospect of organizing closets and scrubbing the refrigerator, stop and think about it. What better way is there to feel powerful than by improving your living situation in such a way that every day moving forward you can see the influence you have?

You may feel the urge to buy something incredibly expensive today. Check your bank account first, but then go right ahead and buy yourself that flashy new toy. You might impress someone new!

You’re feeling a little more settled in and might be ready to really think about merging families. If you’re already long past that, you’ll probably just need to jointly cope with family needs.

You’ve gotten things as balanced as they’re going to be in the financial arena, at least for now. Focus on your personal issues instead. The change of mental scenery alone will do you good.