You need to accentuate the positive and eliminate the negative. It’s way too easy to get caught up in a never-ending cycle of worrying about what could have been, so make sure that you don’t start that kind of thinking in the first place. If others are busy spiraling downward, just ignore them and go your own way. Faith in yourself is the critical element to making sure that this situation comes out just right, so keep your spirits up!

Put a stop to being all talk and no action. Take love matters into your own hands and ask someone you’ve been admiring from afar out on a date. Plan a casual but flirty event, then let your charm do the rest.

Don’t be played for a sucker. If you feel like you’re being boxed into an emotional corner, speak up and say so. They may not be doing it deliberately or maliciously, but you still need to stand up for yourself.

Planning long term stuff is just a waste of time, not to mention money. For once, you need to live in the present, if only where finances are concerned. You’re getting a Zen lesson, totally free.