Are you feeling insecure about a friendship just because you haven’t seen someone in a while? Call them today and see what’s up. And if they already have plans, don’t worry. If you get too possessive about your relationship, you only send a message that you’re needy and too reliant on this person. They’ll start to feel as if you’re clinging too much and it will do more harm to the relationship than good.

Keep your conversations with potential dates short and sweet today. If you are responding people on dating apps, say just enough to capture their attention, then leave them wanting to know more.

You can’t wait for the evening’s romance to get started, but try to keep your mind from wandering for just a few more hours. A sexy text to your partner gives you both a little boost.

Get your ego out of the equation and take care of the bottom line as ruthlessly as you would in any other situation. That your arrogance and possibly your self-respect are on the block shouldn’t cloud your judgment.