Your sweetheart seems to have gotten up on the wrong side of the bed — as do your neighbors. And your best friend. And the grocery clerk. Whoops. Doesn’t this mean that it might actually be you who has the problem? Well, don’t worry. It’s nothing that dinner and drinks can’t cure. Just be sure you’re with someone who really knows how to enjoy a relaxing night out, just like you do.

If you’re waiting for a certain cutie to get back to you, try casting another line or two. They’re not necessarily moving at the same pace, so you can try to find some other fish in the sea.

Today, focus your energy on your sensual side. Take your honey with you to choose some new candles and massage oil, or shop solo and surprise them! Use your new props to set the mood, and let your imagination guide you.

The less preparation time you have, the less wiggle room you have. Even things that are a matter of the law are more an art than a science. Don’t delay. Give yourself the time you need to prime your canvas.