It might seem like you have some tough choices to make, but if you look at them through a fresh lens, you’ll see that the choices are actually pretty simple. To help get some clarity, ask a friend to hear you out. Share what you are going through with someone who you trust, someone who will be brutally honest and not just tell you what you want to hear. Don’t worry that you will come off as weak or indecisive. The people in your life want to help you.

You’re now more interested in straight-laced than wacky, in classic than avant-garde. Why fight it? Smile at that person wearing a suit on the bus, or chat with your quiet, sophisticated neighbor.

Even though just thinking about an awkward couple topic might make you squeamish, today is the right time to bring it up with your partner. Be direct and to the point if you want to make any headway.

Feeling possessive is a big red flag that you’re not secure about your ability to provide for yourself. Everything you own can be replaced with money. It’s the things that can’t be bought or sold you should be really concerned about. So don’t worry, you’ve accomplished a lot thus far and you have much more yet to achieve.