Being a part of a group doesn’t really count unless you are an active member. Are you contributing all that you could be contributing, or are you sitting in the background, hoping no one ever enlists your help? If you don’t really want to be involved, do yourself (and everyone else) a favor and bow out of the group altogether. If you joined this group for a reason, remind yourself what that reason was. Then try raising your hand and getting more involved.

What’s the secret behind finding romance? Knowing that change is a constant. Has it occurred to you that if you’re stuck in one place, it might be that you unconsciously want to stay there? Think about it.

Make sure you’re not on automatic pilot when your sweetie asks something, or you could find yourself committed to a situation you would rather not be involved in. Paying attention now will save you trouble later on.

If wild success is something foreign to you, then you might have to get used to it. You’re not willing to take no for an answer anymore, and that goes from the smallest things to the largest.