You need to stick to the schedule for now, rather than turning your life upside-down on a whim. Today’s energy favors routine, regularity and consistency above all else. Even if you find yourself wistfully glancing at travel brochures, remember that virtue really is its own reward. You’ve got plenty of time for thrills — on your terms, that is — once you make sure to take care of everything on your to-do list.

Avoid the blandly attractive types with little to say in favor of the cute intellectuals. Your brain could use a little exercise, and that moment when the glasses come off is always a thrill.

You can keep asking yourself “what if” until the cows come home, but then you’ll just ignore what you and your partner have in the here and now. Once you process the past, pay attention to the present.

If you’re more thrifty than usual, it has more to do with style than with your finances. It certainly isn’t hurting your bank account, though, so keep up the pretense if that’s what it takes to keep up with the trends.