It’s time to do some reading between the lines. A friend who’s an expert at this can help you detect the signs, and then it’s time to figure out how exactly you’re going to handle this potentially sticky situation. Your conservative, practical side may be in denial that there’s something funny going on, but on a more intuitive level, it’s hard to refute.

Don’t get carried away. One of your best assets is knowing your limitations. That’s why you set attainable, short-term goals. But when it comes to matter of love, you’ve set your sights ridiculously high. If they’re out of your league, accept it and move on.

Tending to others’ needs may make you the ideal partner, but now is the time to do something special just for you. Take yourself on a solo outing complete with your favorite food and activity.

Not spending money may come across as being selfish in the scenario you find yourself in today, but that doesn’t mean you have to go telling everyone your financial circumstances just to set the record straight. Your past record of selfless giving should speak for itself.