The poise and assurance that oozes out of every pore doesn’t only work from nine to five, you know. It’s pretty much a 24/7 kind of thing, and it pertains even more to your behavior once you punch out of work, since just about everyone will still be looking to you for approval and support. That goes double for your family right now, so get busy. Think of it as a tremendous compliment and be the benevolent dictator. You’re perfect for the job.

If you’re having a hard time reaching out to that crush, try a different approach. What works for others might not work for you. Know when to stop. Sometimes you just need to cut your losses.

For the next few days, you may not feel like going out and socializing. Use this time to stay in and get comfortable with your partner. Make a cozy space for just the two of you and forget about the outside world.

What matters most is the same today as it’s always been. The ability to connect with others is still your most valuable asset. Take it out and dust it off. You can practice on total strangers.