A strange encounter with a friend could lead you to understand just how imposing the walls you’ve built have become. There’s no good explanation for this wave of self-protectiveness that’s come over you, so what gives? Try letting a few folks in on how you’re feeling right now and let them see the real and amazing you. Trusting a friend will give you the confidence you need to start tearing down that wall before it grows any higher.

Anything that helps you get centered — running, maybe, or getting in touch with nature — helps you find a new balance when it comes to love. You should see with a new clarity.

You’ve got to try something new with your partner, especially if there’s some question about who, if anyone, is in charge. Try to return to a balance of authority if at all possible.

The break you’re getting is turning out to be more work than work itself. Whether it’s one you’ve given yourself or one imposed on you from the outside, it’s time to stand up, stretch and tackle what’s before you.