It’s time to stop thinking so long and hard about what you want to say! Sometimes being spontaneous is the only way you can initiate something new and exciting. Whether it’s introducing yourself to a hottie at the gym or grabbing the seat next to the big boss at lunch so you can get in some face time, you need to act now to get what you want. Waiting for someone else to come to you just isn’t going to work right now. If you want it, you have to grab it!

Be honest. You know that this person likes you a lot more than you like them. Playing for keeps if you’re not serious will only be a very large debit in your romantic karma column. Play fair.

You’ve got a clear vision of what you want from this relationship, and you ought to be able to articulate it to your partner with ease. You might need to negotiate a bit, but that’s what it’s all about!

Too much thinking won’t help even if you have all the time in the world. But since time is the one thing you’re just about out of, you certainly don’t want to waste it being too cerebral. An action is what’s called for, not further intellectualizing.