There is a lack of discipline in your life right now, which might make it difficult for you to know what to do! Without the structure you’re used to following, the sheer number of your choices risks becoming overwhelming. Get advice from someone who has been through all this before. They can give you a few pointers on how to navigate these potentially confusing waters. You have a good start. You just need a little more guidance to get you where you want to be.

If you wake up groggy and grouchy and offend a few people early in the day, that’s okay. They get it. Just don’t forget to make amends later for your transgressions. No, it’s not necessary, but you’ll feel better about yourself.

Some days it feels like you have two jobs: The one you get paid for and your relationship. Keep a stiff upper lip and remember that you get out what you put in. Remind yourself that the relationship part isn’t a bad gig!

You’re not out to gain anything today. In fact, it goes without saying you’ll end the evening with less than what you started with. And if you have nothing left at all, consider your day a grand success.