So many people around you are clamoring for the spotlight right now that in order to get the attention you crave, the wiser move is to be the quietest one in the room. Being subtle and subdued in your approach is the best way to stand apart from a noisy group and get the undivided attention of someone you want to impress. Being cool, calm, and collected will get your further today than flapping your arms or yelling and screaming will.

Imagine who you want in your life and what kind of romantic partner they’ll be. Maybe you’re not looking for love right now, but if you visualize the relationship you want, you’ll recognize it when it comes along.

Stretch your legs and be active today. Get out of the house with your partner! Take your best swing at miniature golf or take a tango lesson. Thwart any couch potato ways once and for all.

What’s the difference between a plan and a scheme? One is destined to fail. Someone may present a glittering picture of the future, but when your palm starts to itch, don’t take out your checkbook.