You simply won’t be able to do it all today, so go easy on yourself and don’t set goals that are impossible to achieve. You don’t need to let yourself out of your responsibilities, but you do need to take yourself out of the running for “perfect person of the year.” The title isn’t worth the stress it requires. If you want to keep harmony in your life, you need to adjust the expectations you have for yourself. Requiring a little bit less enables you to succeed a little bit more.

Your feelings are all over the place. Look for an opportunity to plant your feet and let the dust settle. When you’re there, you’ll feel an overwhelming sense of clarity. Now’s a great time to sit down and rework those romantic goals.

Your independence is one of the qualities that first attracted your partner, but remember that people need to be needed. If you’d like some help, ask! Your partner will be thrilled to provide you with support.

Being a creature of habit has its benefits — and also its drawbacks. You’re being made aware of its disadvantages today, not the least of which is an income that chugs along rather than races ahead. That alone is enough to shake you out of your regular way of doing things.