You need to let someone off the hook, and you might find that in the process you stop demanding perfection from yourself as well. It could mean a huge sigh of relief from everyone involved! It’s much nicer to give yourself and your people the freedom to be imperfect. This makes your relationships much easier, but you might also discover that it gives you more room to grow.

Just because you’ve got a romantic situation all thought out doesn’t necessarily make a decision any easier to reach. Find a way to give yourself more time. Your heart can be the conclusive factor.

Surprise your partner by initiating a new plan today. If they’ve mentioned something they want to try, why not make it happen for them? They will love that you took charge and did it.

It doesn’t have to be all gloom and despair. There is a certain amount of freedom in your position, as it were. That realization could boost your morale like a bolt of electricity if you let yourself accept the gestalt.