Take a step back and look at how much you’ve accomplished. You can’t always be pushing forward, you know. Everybody needs a little break here and there, now and again, to reconsider and regroup. Why not take some time to draw up a list of all the things you’re proud of. Then take yourself out for a nice long lunch.

Break with the past now. You’ve been living in what-if land too long, and it’s probably dragging you down. Plan for the future while staying firmly in the present. Your life is pretty great. Don’t let old drama stop your progress.

Getting an irritating family member or coworker off your back is priority number one. Believe it or not, your sweetheart can help. Capable as you are, you can (and should) ask for more help from your loved ones.

If you stayed organized all year, then you shouldn’t find yourself in too much of a bind right about now. If not, then let this be a lesson to you. Either way, it’s time to dig into the numbers.