You’ve got to make a big decision regarding a certain special person, but you’re not really sure which way to go. You know you’re ready, willing and able to take that leap. On the other hand, you’re worried about how much time you currently invest in work or school, and you may be nervous that frequent overtime isn’t all that conducive to a relationship. Consider just how conducive a relationship can be to eliminating the urge to put in that overtime in the first place.

Build up a flexible perspective and emotions to match — and do it consciously by shaking up your schedule and your thought patterns. Before long, romance can be shaken up, too, in an awesome way.

It might be hard to tell, but someone could be eyeing your sweetie. There’s no risk in it, but you might want to figure it out and show everyone what’s what. It might even be fun.

Sure, you could just give in and walk away, but would you feel good about it? At the end of the day, it’s about more than just money. Don’t do what’s easy, do what’s right.