Exactly how long have you been trying to help a dear one curtail their bad habits? Can you remember? Keep in mind you’ve been working so diligently at that project that it’s also been a while since you’ve allowed yourself to have any fun. You’ve been trying as hard — and, in some cases, harder — than they have. Your job now, should you choose to accept it — and you’d better, for your own sake — is to cut them loose. And don’t worry. They’ll manage just fine.

It’s okay to put off making a decision if you’re not sure of all the details. Give yourself time to review the situation. If something doesn’t feel right, allow yourself to just walk away. You don’t have to worry about what others will think. Just do what your heart is telling you to do.

If one of your needs isn’t being met right now, it’s time to figure out how to get it met. Make sure your partner knows it’s relevant. And don’t forget that feelings also count when discussing this topic.

Stay focused on your bank account, because there could be a sneak attack when you expect it the least. It’s nothing evil, but it will cost you nonetheless. Don’t go out spending money because that makes you the most vulnerable to a serious loss of funds.