You can’t spend all your energy making other people happy. Switch your focus to that person you see in the mirror and start working harder to make yourself smile. Do at least one nice thing for yourself today. Cancel a meeting you’ve been dreading, or splurge on a nice gadget you’ve been coveting. You have a right to do something for yourself every once in a while, so don’t feel guilty about it.

You’ve most likely got to deal with housework, errands, and chores. Take care of them as quickly as you can, because by later this evening you’ve some got hot, sexy energy coming your way!

Think beyond the immediate when it comes to making a current crop of decisions about you and your partner. What will the effects be in the long term? And not just on yourselves, but on your nearest and dearest?

Once you understand a thing, you’re likely to fall in love with it. So spend some time figuring out the ups and downs of your finances. Once the sparks fly, you’ll be that much more motivated to stay involved.