Do you have unfinished business with one of your old relatives? Think about it. Does a forgotten birthday or belated wedding present come to mind? Make sure you’re up to date with family members. Call a sibling or parents who can help you solve this puzzle and advise you on correcting any problem situations. Whoever is waiting to hear from you has a longer memory than you do, but they also have a huge heart. Don’t worry about anger or hurt feelings. They just want to hear from you!

It affronts your regal pride to be seen in anything other than the best, but just remember that the “best” differs widely from person to person. Perhaps you and a potential lover could talk about your standards first.

It’s surprisingly easy to fall into the habit of making snap judgments, even — or especially — with your loved one. If they say something out of character, cut ’em a little slack. You slip up on occasion, too.

Don’t try to tackle your problems on your own. Asking for help is difficult but not impossible for you. You don’t need a handout, you need a leg up. There’s a big difference.