Your coworkers are there to help you in your career, not your personal life. Be wary of the relationships that are veering away from professional and into private. This isn’t to say that you can never be friends (or even more than friends) with a coworker. You can. But you need to be mindful of the difference. Understand that there’s an appropriate time and place to gossip or giggle. In the middle of an important meeting isn’t it.

Settle your social debts! Have you been to lots of dinner parties lately? Then maybe it’s time to throw one. Did your date make the plans last time? Then it’s your turn to suggest the restaurant and movie.

Feel like some old relationship karma has been kicking you in the pants lately? Well, that’s a sign that you need to examine what you don’t like about your dealings with love. Next, figure out how to draw in what you need.

Some of your closest attachments are riddled with hidden power struggles. You have been pulling back even if you’re not aware of it. Look at all of your relationships with a critical eye. Pretend more than money is at stake.