Try not to take that loved one’s criticisms too personally. See if you can ignore the words and look only at actions, which should be much more encouraging. Take a look at the long haul and be patient with them. If you can ride out this rough patch, you should be set for smooth sailing for a good, long time. If ill-conceived statements keep coming your way even after this is all over, you need to have a heart-to-heart talk and let them know how much it bothers you.

You can mow through the basics on a day like today: work tasks, chores, details, and errands. You’ve also got a bit more allure, though, so keep paying attention while you go about taking care of business.

How’s the balance of power in your relationship? It’s a question you need to ask every so often, and now is one of those times. Be ready to renegotiate the current state of give-and-take.

Your biggest problem isn’t your boss, it’s boredom. You need a challenge to give your all to, and it’s up to you to find one for yourself. Find something you can really put your shoulder into and watch yourself excel. That should set the stage for a raise.